Wednesday, 13 January 2016

when one writes...two learn !

I am not afraid of the storms for I am learning how to sail my ship....
 " Tell me and I will forget, teach me and I will remember but involve me in me and I will learn."
A white paper consists of a black dot, and the noticeable thing in it was only the black dot. This is how we perceive things in others, one fault in someone else and we forget all his/her good deeds he/she did to us, this has always been our pattern. Things which does not suit us, things which are out of our reach , things which are difficult to understand and things which does not fulfill our expectations are always been the wrong things in our lives.
Just another day I met a woman , I saw her happy in her own self, completely judging others for just stupid things,quarrelling with every person on this earth who questioned her integrity, getting insecured for her loved ones, a rude ,obnoxious woman who knew nothing but to always prove that she was the only right person in this world. that annoying woman I met was me ! I found mistakes in every other person but never ever thought that what was causing them to make mistakes, it was me who made them commit it, some lied because they were scared of my anger, some took me for granted because i let them do it with me, some took advantage of my kindness , because I didn't had the ability to say "No".Even when someone does wrong to us why don't we sit and think for a while what went wrong with you first, and all the answers will come in front of you.
Life really becomes easy when we start taking each and everything around us to be the cause and effect of our own karma.Somebody was mean to me because may be sometime I was mean to someone else, someone disrespected me because may be sometime I would have insulted somebody. This is how the cycle of karma works and what goes around will apparently come around back to you straight on your face. The beauty lies in the art of learning, where we dont blame and crib on what people have done to us or maybe to others and we understand what we shouldn't do with them. The point where we start understanding that the first person who can change our environment is "I" . whatever the situation lies to be difficult or easy it reflects our own karma, the easy one encourages us to keep going good and the difficult ones shows us where we stood in terms of our human revolution.
and now is the time where i have learned the art of standalone spirit and oneness of mind where i take my ownership completely.
From an emotionally vulnerable person i learn how to just be honest with vulnerability, From an aggressive person I learn how to love in abundance when he calms down, from a rude person I learn how best I can be with him /her so that I increase the level of humbleness in me, from a greedy person I grasp the power of his/her greed in me which I could invest in the manifestation of love, from an egotist I learn to be as grounded as I can with people, from an extremist I learn to be normal under severe conditions, from confusions I learn the power of decision making , from irritations I learn the importance of calmness, from chaos I learn patience and from hate I learn the value of love.
Learning is not filling your empty vessel of knowledge,it is the kindling of the inner flame in you.You will learn something from yourself if you pay attention, you are your best teacher.Instead of following people blindly and chasing the race of becoming what we arent, why dont we learn from them. Nobody in this world will teach you discipline, the only discipline which will last is self discipline. what a wonderful pleasure we get when we learn and gain knowledge everyday but the incomparable pleasure is the one when we have a wisdom of letting go of something everyday. Thats when we are able to connect our learning with our brains who thought of nothing but to blame and crib. I love "learning" and i love " learners " and most of all I love the love of bringing  both the love together.
Just try to learn something about everything and everything about something  , but just keep learning because only learning is the treasure that will follow its owner everywhere , it walked in when the rest walked out, it gave me wisdom when i just had a nervous breakdown, it taught me patience , love and the ability to let go . And the moment I stopped learning I think I will start dying because the limits of my learning will only be the limits of my own created illusionist world.